Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

" If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener." 

"Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems. 

To have a good relationship with someone you need to be a really good listenr so you guys could connect witheachother. If you have a girlfriend or friend there going to want you t listen
to them. Or else they wont feel comfortable and wont have trust. Also people might think you are rude if your not listening and might do the samw thing back to you. You alsoo learn alot of new things once you hear them out. in jobs and interveiws you need to listen to them to get the job or else you wont. Also when your on a date the girl might onot be intrested in you after that. 

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