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                                                       Importance of setting goals. The importance of setting goals is very important. Because without goals you are unable to complete what you want. You must need goals because thats the only way to succsesful

Reflection: I have reflected on all the 6 rules and i will be guarteed to live them all my life. I have been following the 6 rules for a month now and they have made me a better person overal. To my personality and feelings and what i think and see in life. It has made me a happy person and mood and great friends with everyone. I am nicer to people and they are nicer to me. I have been a better listenter and make people more important. I smile more and remember names i dont forget them

Rule 5 Talk in terms of the other man's interest. "The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most." I think it means that in able to win a mans heart you need to seem be intrested in him. You guys need to talk about what he likes the most and to find out what he wants. You need to find out what you guys like about eachother and why you guys are together. Talk about anything to anybody to learn about them.

Rule 6:  Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely. "The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." (John Dewey) "Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic." In order to make a person feel more special and important you need to accept who people are and who and what they do. For example just because there not like you dousnt mean you wont like them untill they truly are. Another example is to aperricate what they do for you and. They will start to like you and they will feel good about them selves. Sooner or later they will do the SAME THING they do to you. you need to be agreeable and pay attention to people. If you dont pay attention people are not going to like you and will just think your not intrested in what there saying or dont care. Also never critzise people for what there doing or else your going to turn yourself into a bully. And no one likes bullys they go no where. Always ctr in every situation

Freelance My student led confrence was cool. My mom didnt get mad or anything. We were looking for parking for 30 minutes and my mom was mad and about to leave. We then found one after 30 and we rushed to the classroom. We were late already and then i enter the class. We introduce ourselves and i get a laptop and look at my grades and show my mom. she says i have good grades so then we proceed to leave the class

  Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. " If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener."  "Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems.  To have a good relationship with someone you need to be a really good listenr so you guys could connect witheachother. If you have a girlfriend or friend there going to want you t listen to them. Or else they wont feel comfortable and wont have trust. Also people might think you are rude if your not listening and might do the samw thing back to you. You alsoo learn alot of new things once you hear them out. in jobs and interveiws you need to listen to them to get the job or else you wont. Also when your on a date the girl might onot be intrested in you after that. 

Remember names  1) "A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language." 2) "If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble." I think it means that you need to remember everyones names in order to grant there respect. Because if you just call someone without knwoing there name that is disrespectful to them. You need to gain there respect by knowing there name and calling them. Like what if someone said aye you to you. Woudnt that be disrecspectful ? to you. To be friends or to know someone  We feel more valued and respected when someone remembers our  name. We feel more engaged in a conversation when someone uses our name. “A person's name is to him or her is the sweetest and most important sound in any language,” And when you remember someone’s name that you just met it means a lot to the person and it will put a smile on their face that you remembered them. Remembering anyone’s name is important because it m

Become genuinely interested in other people When you’re in conversations with people, give the other person the spotlight. Avoid getting into social situations just to talk about yourself. Give others the moment to shine and allow them to talk about thems -  Think of everybody as a different novel with a story you have yet to uncover. Everyone comes from different walks of life which is pretty fascinating. -  Based off of my last point, since everyone comes from different walks of life, everyone offers a different perspective in regards to how they view the world. Getting to know people different than you allows you to expand your knowledge of the world you live in.  -  I think when we give the other person the attention they deserve it allows us to become more interested in them. Give them consistent eye contact, and maintain open body language. Listen closely to what they are saying and ask relevant questions based on what they said.

High Achievers are teachable When a person is teachable they are considered students, they are the ones that have the capability to learn new information and expand their intelligence. The reason that this is an attitude of a high achiever is because only those who really want to achieve and be successful in life are willing to are the ones who are open to learning new information that will expand their intelligence. An example of this can be anyone who goes to the library nowadays and picks up a book and starts reading without complaining that they don't like the book. Someone who is eager about learning new things is a person who is setting themselves up for success.